diff --git a/.env.example b/.env.example
index 707efd4..953ae93 100644
--- a/.env.example
+++ b/.env.example
@@ -277,4 +277,14 @@
 # Examples:
 #   NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST=npub1spam...
 #   NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST=npub1spam...,npub1abuser...
-# NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST=
\ No newline at end of file
+# NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST=
+
+# ============================================================================
+# RATE LIMITING & DOS PROTECTION
+# ============================================================================
+
+# Maximum total connections to the relay
+# Prevents connection exhaustion DoS attacks
+# CLI: --max-connections <count>
+# Default: 500
+# NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS=500
\ No newline at end of file
diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
index e0e39fd..189478c 100644
--- a/README.md
+++ b/README.md
@@ -237,6 +237,48 @@ NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST=npub1spam1...,npub1spam2...
 
 **See**: [Configuration Reference](docs/reference/configuration.md) for complete details
 
+## Defensive Measures & Rate Limiting
+
+ngit-grasp implements multiple layers of defense against abuse, spam, and denial-of-service attacks:
+
+**Per-Connection Rate Limits:**
+- Max 500 concurrent subscriptions per connection
+- Max 60 events published per minute per connection
+- Built-in to rust-nostr relay-builder
+
+**Per-IP Connection Monitoring:**
+- Tracks connections per IP address (default threshold: 10)
+- Flags potential abusers in logs and metrics
+- **Does NOT enforce limits** (monitoring only)
+- Privacy-preserving (IP addresses never exposed in Prometheus)
+
+**Content Filtering (Blacklists/Whitelists):**
+- **Event blacklist** - Block ALL events from specific authors (npubs)
+- **Repository blacklist** - Block specific repositories/developers/identifiers
+- **Repository whitelist** - Curate which repositories are accepted (GRASP-01 mode)
+- **Archive whitelist** - Mirror specific repositories (GRASP-05 mode)
+- See [Curation & Moderation](#curation--moderation) section above for details
+
+**Relay Sync Protection (GRASP-02):**
+- **Exponential backoff** - Failed connections: 5s → 10s → 20s → ... → 1 hour max
+- **Naughty list** - Track relays with infrastructure issues separately (12h expiry)
+- **Rate limit detection** - Auto 65s cooldown when remote relays rate limit us
+- **Domain throttling** - Max 5 concurrent, 30/min per domain for git data fetching
+
+**Event Validation:**
+- Strict GRASP-01 protocol validation via WritePolicy plugin system
+- Extensible for custom validation logic (has access to client IP address)
+
+**Total Connection Limit:**
+- Max 500 total connections (configurable via `NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS`)
+- Prevents connection exhaustion DoS attacks
+
+**Not Implemented:**
+- Per-IP connection limits (only monitored, not enforced)
+- Per-IP event rate limits (tracked per connection, not per IP)
+
+**See**: [Defensive Measures](docs/explanation/defensive-measures.md) for complete details and future enhancements.
+
 ## Roadmap
 
 ### GRASP-02 Enhancements
diff --git a/docs/explanation/README.md b/docs/explanation/README.md
index f477b73..58cc46f 100644
--- a/docs/explanation/README.md
+++ b/docs/explanation/README.md
@@ -151,6 +151,48 @@ Explanation documentation helps you **understand concepts** and design decisions
 
 ---
 
+### [Defensive Measures & Rate Limiting](defensive-measures.md)
+**Protection against abuse, spam, and denial-of-service attacks**
+
+**Topics:**
+- Connection and subscription management
+- Event publishing rate limits
+- Content filtering (blacklists/whitelists)
+- Event validation plugin system (WritePolicy/QueryPolicy)
+- Relay health management (naughty list, exponential backoff)
+- Privacy-preserving IP tracking
+- Future enhancements (per-IP rate limiting)
+
+**Read when:** You want to understand how ngit-grasp protects against abuse and what defensive features are available
+
+---
+
+### [GRASP-05 Archive Mode](grasp-05-archive.md)
+**Read-only mirroring of repositories**
+
+**Topics:**
+- Archive whitelist configuration
+- Archive-all mode
+- Read-only mode defaults
+- Use cases for backup/mirror relays
+
+**Read when:** You want to understand how to run an archive/backup relay
+
+---
+
+### [Deletion Requests](deletion-requests.md)
+**Handling repository and event deletion**
+
+**Topics:**
+- Deletion request architecture
+- Delete disrespector concept
+- Preventing left-pad scenarios
+- Archival policies
+
+**Read when:** You want to understand how ngit-grasp handles deletion events (planned feature)
+
+---
+
 ## Planned Explanation Documentation
 
 ### GRASP Protocol Design
diff --git a/docs/explanation/defensive-measures.md b/docs/explanation/defensive-measures.md
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..51f7278
--- /dev/null
+++ b/docs/explanation/defensive-measures.md
@@ -0,0 +1,165 @@
+# Defensive Measures & Rate Limiting
+
+This document describes the defensive measures implemented in ngit-grasp to protect against abuse, spam, and denial-of-service attacks.
+
+**Note:** A point-in-time analysis of defensive measures in other Nostr relays (strfry, nostr-rs-relay, khatru) was conducted to inform these design decisions. The analysis examined connection limits, rate limiting approaches, and per-IP enforcement strategies across the ecosystem.
+
+## Overview
+
+ngit-grasp employs multiple layers of defense:
+
+1. **Connection & Subscription Limits** - Per-connection limits on subscriptions and event publishing
+2. **Content Filtering** - Blacklist/whitelist system for repositories and event authors
+3. **Event Validation** - Strict GRASP-01 protocol validation
+4. **Relay Health Management** - Intelligent handling of problematic remote relays
+
+## What's Implemented
+
+### Per-Connection Rate Limits
+
+**Source:** Built-in to rust-nostr relay-builder
+
+- **Subscription limit:** Max 500 concurrent subscriptions per connection
+- **Event publishing limit:** Max 60 events per minute per connection
+- **Subscription ID length:** Max 250 characters
+- **Filter limit:** Max 500 results per query (default)
+
+These limits prevent individual connections from overwhelming the relay.
+
+### Per-IP Connection Monitoring
+
+**Source:** Custom ngit-grasp implementation  
+**Location:** `src/metrics/connection.rs`
+
+- **Status:** Monitoring only (does NOT enforce limits)
+- Tracks connections per IP address internally
+- Flags IPs exceeding threshold (default: 10 connections)
+- **Privacy:** IP addresses never exposed in Prometheus metrics, only aggregate counts
+- Logs warnings when threshold exceeded
+
+**Note on enforcement:** Per-IP connection limits are not built into rust-nostr relay-builder (tracks per WebSocket connection, not per IP). If abuse is detected via metrics, enforcement should be implemented as a PR to rust-nostr/relay-builder to benefit the entire Nostr ecosystem, rather than custom code in ngit-grasp.
+
+### Content Filtering (Blacklists/Whitelists)
+
+**Source:** Custom ngit-grasp implementation  
+**Location:** `src/config.rs`, `src/nostr/builder.rs`
+
+**Event Blacklist:**
+- Block ALL events from specific authors (npubs)
+- Takes precedence over all other validation
+- Events never reach storage or purgatory
+
+**Repository Blacklist:**
+- Block specific repositories, developers, or identifiers
+- Takes precedence over whitelists
+- Three formats: `npub`, `npub/identifier`, `identifier`
+
+**Repository Whitelist:**
+- Curate which repositories are accepted (GRASP-01 mode)
+- Only accept announcements that both list your service AND match whitelist
+- Same three formats as blacklist
+
+**Archive Whitelist (GRASP-05):**
+- Mirror specific repositories even if they don't list your service
+- Same three formats as blacklist
+- Default: read-only mode when enabled
+
+**Privacy:** Blacklists not advertised in NIP-11 metadata.
+
+### Event Validation Plugin System
+
+**Source:** Built-in to rust-nostr relay-builder  
+**Implementation:** Custom GRASP-01 validation in `src/nostr/builder.rs`
+
+- **WritePolicy trait:** Controls which events are accepted
+- **QueryPolicy trait:** Controls which queries are allowed (not currently used)
+- Access to client IP address for future per-IP rate limiting
+- Modular sub-policies for different event types (announcements, state events, PRs)
+
+### Relay Health Management (GRASP-02 Sync)
+
+**Source:** Custom ngit-grasp implementation  
+**Location:** `src/sync/health.rs`
+
+**Exponential Backoff:**
+- Failed connections trigger increasing delays: 5s → 10s → 20s → ... → 1 hour max
+- Prevents hammering dead or slow relays
+
+**Naughty List:**
+- Tracks relays with persistent infrastructure issues (DNS, TLS, protocol errors)
+- Separate from normal connection failures
+- 12-hour expiration (configurable)
+- Reduces retry frequency for broken relays
+
+**Rate Limit Detection:**
+- Detects when remote relay rate limits us
+- Automatic 65-second cooldown
+- Prevents hammering relays that tell us to slow down
+
+**Domain Throttling (Git Data Fetching):**
+- Max 5 concurrent requests per domain
+- Max 30 requests per minute per domain
+- Respectful rate limiting when fetching missing git data
+
+## What's NOT Implemented
+
+### Per-IP Rate Limiting
+
+- **Per-IP connection limits:** Not enforced (only monitored)
+- **Per-IP subscription limits:** Not supported
+- **Per-IP event publishing limits:** Not supported
+
+**Why:** rust-nostr relay-builder tracks limits per WebSocket connection, not per IP address.
+
+**To implement:** Would require custom middleware/WritePolicy to aggregate across connections from the same IP.
+
+### Query Filtering
+
+**Status:** QueryPolicy trait available but not currently used.
+
+**Potential uses:** Rate limit queries per IP, block expensive queries, restrict access to certain event kinds.
+
+## Future Enhancements
+
+### Per-IP Rate Limiting
+
+Per-IP connection and event rate limiting were considered but deferred until abuse is detected in production. The current protections (per-connection limits, total connection limit, content filtering) are sufficient for the git relay use case.
+
+**Decision rationale:** The primary DoS vector is connection exhaustion, which is addressed by the total connection limit (`NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS`). Per-IP enforcement would require custom middleware in rust-nostr relay-builder (which currently tracks limits per WebSocket connection, not per IP). If abuse is detected via the per-IP monitoring metrics, enforcement should be implemented as a PR to rust-nostr/relay-builder to benefit the entire Nostr ecosystem.
+
+**Related:** Git endpoint throttling (issue ff38) is a separate concern with different requirements.
+
+## Summary Table
+
+| Feature | Status | Enforced? | Configurable? |
+|---------|--------|-----------|---------------|
+| **Per-Connection Limits** |
+| Max subscriptions (500) | ✅ Active | Yes | No (relay-builder default) |
+| Event rate limit (60/min) | ✅ Active | Yes | No (relay-builder default) |
+| **Total Connection Limit** |
+| Max connections (500) | ✅ Active | Yes | Yes (`NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS`) |
+| **Per-IP Monitoring** |
+| Connection tracking | ✅ Active | No (monitor only) | Threshold only |
+| **Content Filtering** |
+| Event blacklist | ✅ Active | Yes | Yes |
+| Repository blacklist | ✅ Active | Yes | Yes |
+| Repository whitelist | ✅ Active | Yes (if set) | Yes |
+| Archive whitelist | ✅ Active | Yes (if set) | Yes |
+| **Event Validation** |
+| GRASP-01 validation | ✅ Active | Yes | Via WritePolicy |
+| **Relay Sync Protection** |
+| Exponential backoff | ✅ Active | Yes | Yes |
+| Naughty list | ✅ Active | Yes | Yes (12h default) |
+| Rate limit detection | ✅ Active | Yes | Automatic |
+| Domain throttling | ✅ Active | Yes | Hardcoded (5/30) |
+| **Not Implemented** |
+| Per-IP connection limit | ⚠️ Deferred | No | - |
+| Per-IP rate limiting | ⚠️ Deferred | No | - |
+| Query filtering | ⚠️ Available | No | Not implemented |
+
+## Related Documentation
+
+- [Configuration Reference](../reference/configuration.md) - All config options for defensive features
+- [Monitoring Overview](monitoring.md) - Prometheus metrics for tracking abuse
+- [GRASP-05 Archive](grasp-05-archive.md) - Archive whitelist details
+- [Architecture](architecture.md) - Overall system design
diff --git a/docs/reference/configuration.md b/docs/reference/configuration.md
index 8b49297..c3001d3 100644
--- a/docs/reference/configuration.md
+++ b/docs/reference/configuration.md
@@ -925,6 +925,46 @@ Event blacklist does **not** affect NIP-11 metadata:
 
 ---
 
+### Rate Limiting & DoS Protection
+
+#### `NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS`
+
+**Description:** Maximum total connections to the relay. Prevents connection exhaustion DoS attacks.  
+**Type:** Integer  
+**Default:** `500`  
+**Required:** No
+
+**Examples:**
+
+```bash
+# Default: 500 connections
+NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS=500
+
+# Higher limit for large public relay
+NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS=1000
+
+# Lower limit for private relay
+NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS=100
+```
+
+**Notes:**
+
+- Limits total concurrent WebSocket connections to the relay
+- Prevents connection exhaustion attacks
+- Works in conjunction with per-connection limits (500 subscriptions, 60 events/min)
+- When limit is reached, new connections are rejected
+- Existing connections continue to work normally
+
+**Related Limits:**
+
+Per-connection limits (built-in to relay-builder, not configurable):
+- Max subscriptions per connection: 500
+- Max events per minute per connection: 60
+- Max subscription ID length: 250 characters
+- Max results per filter: 500
+
+---
+
 ### Logging Configuration
 
 #### `RUST_LOG`
diff --git a/nix/module.nix b/nix/module.nix
index 09c56c1..4117b6d 100644
--- a/nix/module.nix
+++ b/nix/module.nix
@@ -250,6 +250,12 @@ let
         '';
       };
 
+      maxConnections = mkOption {
+        type = types.int;
+        default = 500;
+        description = "Maximum total connections to the relay";
+      };
+
       user = mkOption {
         type = types.str;
         default = "ngit-grasp-${name}";
@@ -295,6 +301,7 @@ let
       NGIT_REPOSITORY_WHITELIST = concatStringsSep "," cfg.repositoryWhitelist;
       NGIT_REPOSITORY_BLACKLIST = concatStringsSep "," cfg.repositoryBlacklist;
       NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST = concatStringsSep "," cfg.eventBlacklist;
+      NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS = toString cfg.maxConnections;
       RUST_LOG = cfg.logLevel;
     } // optionalAttrs (cfg.relayName != null) {
       NGIT_RELAY_NAME = cfg.relayName;
diff --git a/src/config.rs b/src/config.rs
index 0f0d853..0014003 100644
--- a/src/config.rs
+++ b/src/config.rs
@@ -469,6 +469,11 @@ pub struct Config {
     /// All events from these authors are blocked from both relay storage and purgatory
     #[arg(long, env = "NGIT_EVENT_BLACKLIST", default_value = "")]
     pub event_blacklist: String,
+
+    /// Maximum total connections to the relay (default: 500)
+    /// Prevents connection exhaustion DoS attacks
+    #[arg(long, env = "NGIT_MAX_CONNECTIONS", default_value_t = 500)]
+    pub max_connections: usize,
 }
 
 impl Config {
@@ -703,6 +708,7 @@ impl Config {
             repository_whitelist: String::new(),
             repository_blacklist: String::new(),
             event_blacklist: String::new(),
+            max_connections: 500,
         }
     }
 }
diff --git a/src/nostr/builder.rs b/src/nostr/builder.rs
index c2de1df..ef1b700 100644
--- a/src/nostr/builder.rs
+++ b/src/nostr/builder.rs
@@ -624,6 +624,14 @@ pub async fn create_relay(
     let relay = LocalRelayBuilder::default()
         .database(database.clone())
         .write_policy(write_policy.clone())
+        // Explicitly set rate limits (make defaults visible in code)
+        // Per-connection limits: 500 max subscriptions, 60 events/min
+        .rate_limit(RateLimit {
+            max_reqs: 500,        // Max concurrent subscriptions per connection
+            notes_per_minute: 60, // Max events per minute per connection
+        })
+        // Total connection limit to prevent DoS attacks
+        .max_connections(config.max_connections)
         .build();
 
     tracing::info!(