Auto-reconnect:
- Add per-peer auto_reconnect config (default true) to PeerConfig
- schedule_reconnect() feeds removed peers back into retry system with
unlimited retries and exponential backoff after MMP dead timeout
- RetryState gains reconnect flag to distinguish startup retries
(max_retries-limited) from auto-reconnect (unlimited)
Retry re-fire fix:
- process_pending_retries() now pushes retry_after_ms past the handshake
timeout window after successful initiate_peer_connection(), preventing
retries from firing every tick with no backoff
Chaos sim improvements:
- Directed outbound configs: BFS spanning tree + lower-ID-first assignment
eliminates dual-connect race conditions in simulation
- Save runner log (runner.log) alongside per-node logs for event correlation
- Increase churn-20 traffic aggressiveness and node churn (max_down_nodes
3→5, traffic interval min 0s, duration max 90s, concurrent flows 5→10)