Create src/node/peering/ as the home for the peer desired-state
(homeostatic reconciler) concept and move the cross-attempt connection
retry schedule into it: RetryState plus schedule_retry /
schedule_reconnect / process_pending_retries.
Mechanical relocation only. The methods remain inherent on Node; the
retry_count must persist across re-dials (a fresh connection is created
each attempt), which is why the schedule belongs in the peering home
rather than on a per-connection type. The one-level-deeper module path
requires pub(super) -> pub(in crate::node) to preserve the prior scope,
plus module-path fixups at the reference sites. No behavior change; unit
test count unchanged (1596).
