Admit rekey msg1 from established peers when addr forms differ

Companion to the ethernet `accept_connections: false` rekey-deadlock
fix from earlier this release: the same dual-init failure mode shows
up over UDP when peers register by hostname, and the existing
addr_to_link-only carve-out in `should_admit_msg1` doesn't cover it.

The carve-out's first predicate keys `addr_to_link` by the literal
`TransportAddr` that `initiate_connection` inserted, which is the
hostname-form when a peer config carries a hostname (e.g.,
`core-vm.tail65015.ts.net:2121`). Inbound packets always arrive with
numeric source addrs because `udp_receive_loop` builds the
`TransportAddr` from the `SocketAddr` the kernel reports via
`recvfrom`. `TransportAddr` equality is byte-exact, so the two forms
don't match and the lookup misses. With `udp.accept_connections:
false` (or `udp.outbound_only: true`, which forces it false) the
gate then rejects the rekey msg1 from an established peer. The
dual-init tie-breaker stalls because the loser side never produces
msg2; both sides retry indefinitely and the winner side keeps
logging "Dual rekey initiation: we win, dropping their msg1" at 1Hz.

The earlier ethernet fix didn't generalize to this variant because
ethernet TransportAddrs are always numeric MAC bytes — both the
config-time form and the inbound-arrival form match identically.

Add a second predicate to `should_admit_msg1`: an active peer's
`current_addr()` matching `(transport_id, remote_addr)`.
`current_addr` is updated and refreshed from inbound encrypted-frame
source addrs (`handlers/encrypted.rs`), which are always numeric
`SocketAddr`-form, so this catches the established peer regardless
of how its `addr_to_link` key was originally inserted. The fast
`addr_to_link` check stays first; the iteration over peers is
bounded by peer count and only runs when the first predicate misses.

Regression coverage in this commit:

- Unit test `test_should_admit_msg1_admits_rekey_when_addr_form_differs`
  in `src/node/tests/handshake.rs`. Constructs the failing scenario
  in-process: `addr_to_link` populated with hostname-form key, peer's
  `current_addr` at the resolved numeric form, query with numeric form.
  Without the new predicate this fails immediately.

- New integration topology `rekey-outbound-only` plus matching
  docker-compose profile. Same 5-node mesh shape as `rekey-accept-off`
  but `inject-config` sets `udp.outbound_only: true` on node-b and
  rewrites node-b's peer-c address from the numeric docker IP to the
  docker hostname (`node-c:2121`), reproducing the production
  hostname-vs-numeric mismatch. The test asserts no sustained
  "Dual rekey initiation: we win" log lines on any node (>10 = bug)
  and the existing rekey health checks catch the connectivity loss
  the loop produces.

- `testing/ci-local.sh` and `.github/workflows/ci.yml` extended to
  run the new variant in the local sweep and the GitHub CI integration
  matrix alongside `rekey` and `rekey-accept-off`.

Verified locally: full `bash testing/ci-local.sh` sweep passes 29/29
suites (23m 12s) with the new variant green; 1084 unit tests pass.

src/node/tests/handshake.rs

@@ -1056,3 +1056,80 @@ async fn test_should_admit_msg1_admits_rekey_when_udp_accept_off() {
 
     assert!(node.should_admit_msg1(transport_id, &addr));
 }
+
+/// Regression test for the udp.outbound_only rekey loop observed in
+/// production 2026-04-30 (parallel to ISSUE-2026-0004).
+///
+/// Production scenario: nomad runs `udp.outbound_only=true` with peer
+/// core-vm configured by hostname (`core-vm.tail65015.ts.net:2121`).
+/// `initiate_connection` populates `addr_to_link` with the literal
+/// hostname-form `TransportAddr`. core-vm's later rekey msg1 arrives at
+/// nomad with a numeric source addr (the kernel always reports
+/// `SocketAddr` in numeric form via `recvfrom`), so the `addr_to_link`
+/// lookup misses, the gate falls through to `accept_connections()`
+/// (false in outbound_only mode), and rejects. Result: dual-init
+/// tie-breaker stalls because the loser side never produces msg2.
+///
+/// The carve-out predicate must also consult peer state by source
+/// address: `current_addr()` is updated from inbound encrypted-frame
+/// source addrs (`handlers/encrypted.rs`), so an established peer can
+/// be matched even when the addr_to_link key is hostname-form and the
+/// incoming addr is numeric.
+#[tokio::test]
+async fn test_should_admit_msg1_admits_rekey_when_addr_form_differs() {
+    use crate::config::UdpConfig;
+    use crate::peer::ActivePeer;
+    use crate::transport::udp::UdpTransport;
+
+    let mut node = make_node();
+    let transport_id = TransportId::new(1);
+
+    // outbound_only mode forces accept_connections() to false.
+    let cfg = UdpConfig {
+        outbound_only: Some(true),
+        ..Default::default()
+    };
+    let (tx, _rx) = packet_channel(64);
+    let udp = UdpTransport::new(transport_id, None, cfg, tx);
+    node.transports
+        .insert(transport_id, TransportHandle::Udp(udp));
+
+    // Simulate initiate_connection's effect when peer config carries a
+    // hostname: addr_to_link is populated with hostname-form, not
+    // numeric-form.
+    let hostname_addr = TransportAddr::from_string("core-vm.example:2121");
+    let link_id = node.allocate_link_id();
+    node.addr_to_link
+        .insert((transport_id, hostname_addr.clone()), link_id);
+
+    // Promote a peer at the hostname's resolved numeric form
+    // (current_addr is set from the SocketAddr in udp_receive_loop).
+    let peer_full = crate::Identity::generate();
+    let peer_identity = PeerIdentity::from_pubkey(peer_full.pubkey());
+    let peer_node_addr = *peer_identity.node_addr();
+    let mut peer = ActivePeer::new(peer_identity, link_id, 1000);
+    let numeric_addr = TransportAddr::from_string("100.64.0.5:2121");
+    peer.set_current_addr(transport_id, numeric_addr.clone());
+    node.peers.insert(peer_node_addr, peer);
+
+    // Sanity: legacy carve-out still works for the hostname-form lookup.
+    assert!(node.should_admit_msg1(transport_id, &hostname_addr));
+
+    // The bug: incoming rekey msg1 arrives with numeric source addr.
+    // Without the additional carve-out, this is rejected (addr_to_link
+    // miss → accept_connections() false → drop).
+    assert!(
+        node.should_admit_msg1(transport_id, &numeric_addr),
+        "rekey msg1 from established peer must be admitted even when \
+         addr_to_link is keyed by a different addr-form (hostname vs \
+         numeric); the carve-out must consult peer current_addr"
+    );
+
+    // Negative: a stranger at a different numeric addr is still rejected
+    // (no peer there, no addr_to_link entry, falls to accept_connections).
+    let stranger_addr = TransportAddr::from_string("198.51.100.1:2121");
+    assert!(
+        !node.should_admit_msg1(transport_id, &stranger_addr),
+        "fresh msg1 from unknown source must still be rejected"
+    );
+}