Make auto-connect peers retry indefinitely on initial connection failure

Previously, static peers configured with AutoConnect gave up after 6
attempts (1 initial + 5 retries). If the remote peer was offline at
startup, the node permanently abandoned the connection. The reconnect
path (after MMP link-dead) already retried indefinitely but only
activated after a peer had been previously connected.

Remove the reconnect parameter from schedule_retry() and always set
reconnect=true when creating retry entries, since only auto-connect
peers reach this code path. The 300s backoff cap prevents resource waste.
The max_retries=0 config still works as an explicit kill switch.

src/node/lifecycle.rs

@@ -475,7 +475,7 @@ impl Node {
                     .duration_since(std::time::UNIX_EPOCH)
                     .map(|d| d.as_millis() as u64)
                     .unwrap_or(0);
-                self.schedule_retry(*pending.peer_identity.node_addr(), now_ms, false);
+                self.schedule_retry(*pending.peer_identity.node_addr(), now_ms);
             }
         }
     }