node: classify transit forwards by route class; regroup fipstop routing tab

Add six forwarding counters that partition transit-forwarded packets by their
tree relationship to the chosen next hop: tree-up (peer is our ancestor),
tree-down (peer is our descendant and the destination is within its subtree),
tree-down-cross (peer is our descendant but the destination is outside its
subtree), cross-link descend (lateral peer, destination within its subtree),
cross-link ascend (lateral peer, destination outside its subtree), and
direct-peer. The six classes sum to forwarded_packets, asserted by a unit
test. Classification is computed from tree coordinates at the transit
chokepoint, so the error-signal routing callers are excluded.

The two "outside the chosen peer's subtree" classes are both up-and-over
forwards but differ in what they depend on. Tree-down-cross is the
dive-to-tree-child cut-through: we forward down to our own child for a
destination not beneath it, which is only possible because the child
advertised cross-link reach upward to us, beyond its own subtree. Its count
measures how much forwarding depends on that upward advertisement, i.e. what
would change if cross-link advertisements were narrowed to subtree-entry only.
Cross-link ascend, by contrast, uses the node's own lateral cross-link learned
from a peer's split-horizon advertisement, so it does not depend on any upward
advertisement.

Surface the counters through the forwarding stats snapshot (control socket,
show_routing and show_status) and reorganize the fipstop routing tab so its
two columns separate own/endpoint traffic (received, delivered, originated)
from forwarded/transit traffic (the route-class breakdown and drop reasons),
with the tree-down-cross line visually flagged.

src/tree/state.rs

@@ -92,6 +92,15 @@ impl TreeState {
         &self.my_coords
     }
 
+    /// Test-only override of this node's coordinates, bypassing the
+    /// parent/declaration state machine. Lets routing tests place the node at
+    /// an arbitrary tree position to exercise coordinate-based classification.
+    #[cfg(test)]
+    pub(crate) fn set_my_coords_for_test(&mut self, coords: TreeCoordinate) {
+        self.root = *coords.root_id();
+        self.my_coords = coords;
+    }
+
     /// Get the current root.
     pub fn root(&self) -> &NodeAddr {
         &self.root