node: classify transit forwards by route class; regroup fipstop routing tab

Add six forwarding counters that partition transit-forwarded packets by their
tree relationship to the chosen next hop: tree-up (peer is our ancestor),
tree-down (peer is our descendant and the destination is within its subtree),
tree-down-cross (peer is our descendant but the destination is outside its
subtree), cross-link descend (lateral peer, destination within its subtree),
cross-link ascend (lateral peer, destination outside its subtree), and
direct-peer. The six classes sum to forwarded_packets, asserted by a unit
test. Classification is computed from tree coordinates at the transit
chokepoint, so the error-signal routing callers are excluded.

The two "outside the chosen peer's subtree" classes are both up-and-over
forwards but differ in what they depend on. Tree-down-cross is the
dive-to-tree-child cut-through: we forward down to our own child for a
destination not beneath it, which is only possible because the child
advertised cross-link reach upward to us, beyond its own subtree. Its count
measures how much forwarding depends on that upward advertisement, i.e. what
would change if cross-link advertisements were narrowed to subtree-entry only.
Cross-link ascend, by contrast, uses the node's own lateral cross-link learned
from a peer's split-horizon advertisement, so it does not depend on any upward
advertisement.

Surface the counters through the forwarding stats snapshot (control socket,
show_routing and show_status) and reorganize the fipstop routing tab so its
two columns separate own/endpoint traffic (received, delivered, originated)
from forwarded/transit traffic (the route-class breakdown and drop reasons),
with the tree-down-cross line visually flagged.

src/control/snapshots/show_routing.json

@@ -53,6 +53,12 @@
       "originated_packets": 0,
       "received_bytes": 0,
       "received_packets": 0,
+      "route_crosslink_ascend": 0,
+      "route_crosslink_descend": 0,
+      "route_direct_peer": 0,
+      "route_tree_down": 0,
+      "route_tree_down_cross": 0,
+      "route_tree_up": 0,
       "ttl_exhausted_bytes": 0,
       "ttl_exhausted_packets": 0
     },

src/control/snapshots/show_status.json

@@ -22,6 +22,12 @@
       "originated_packets": 0,
       "received_bytes": 0,
       "received_packets": 0,
+      "route_crosslink_ascend": 0,
+      "route_crosslink_descend": 0,
+      "route_direct_peer": 0,
+      "route_tree_down": 0,
+      "route_tree_down_cross": 0,
+      "route_tree_up": 0,
       "ttl_exhausted_bytes": 0,
       "ttl_exhausted_packets": 0
     },